1 Corinthians 7

Principles of Marriage

¹Now in response to the matters you wrote about: “It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman.”²³But because sexual immorality is so common, each man should have sexual relations with his own wife, and each woman should have sexual relations with her own husband.⁴⁵A husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise a wife to her husband.⁶⁷A wife does not have the right over her own body, but her husband does. In the same way, a husband does not have the right over his own body, but his wife does.⁸⁹Do not deprive one another — except when you agree for a time, to devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again; otherwise, Satan may tempt you because of your lack of self-control.¹⁰¹¹I say this as a concession, not as a command.¹²¹³I wish that all people were as I am. But each has his own gift from God, one person has this gift, another has that.¹⁴

A Word to the Unmarried

¹⁵I say to the unmarried and to widows: It is good for them if they remain as I am.¹⁶¹⁷But if they do not have self-control, they should marry, since it is better to marry than to burn with desire.¹⁸

About Married People

¹⁹To the married I give this command — not I, but the Lord — a wife is not to leave her husband.²⁰²¹But if she does leave, she must remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband — and a husband is not to divorce his wife.²²²³But I (not the Lord) say to the rest: If any brother has an unbelieving wife and she is willing to live with him, he must not divorce her.²⁴²⁵Also, if any woman has an unbelieving husband and he is willing to live with her, she must not divorce her husband.²⁶²⁷For the unbelieving husband is made holy by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is made holy by the husband. Otherwise your children would be unclean, but as it is they are holy.²⁸²⁹But if the unbeliever leaves, let him leave. A brother or a sister is not bound in such cases. God has called you to live in peace.³⁰³¹Wife, for all you know, you might save your husband. Husband, for all you know, you might save your wife.³²

Various Situations of Life

³³Let each one live his life in the situation the Lord assigned when God called him. This is what I command in all the churches.³⁴³⁵Was anyone already circumcised when he was called? He should not undo his circumcision. Was anyone called while uncircumcised? He should not get circumcised.³⁶³⁷Circumcision does not matter and uncircumcision does not matter. Keeping God’s commands is what matters.³⁸³⁹Let each of you remain in the situation in which he was called.⁴⁰⁴¹Were you called while a slave? Don’t let it concern you. But if you can become free, by all means take the opportunity.⁴²⁴³For he who is called by the Lord as a slave is the Lord’s freedman. Likewise he who is called as a free man is Christ’s slave.⁴⁴⁴⁵You were bought at a price; do not become slaves of people.⁴⁶⁴⁷Brothers and sisters, each person is to remain with God in the situation in which he was called.⁴⁸

About the Unmarried and Widows

⁴⁹Now about virgins: I have no command from the Lord, but I do give an opinion as one who by the Lord’s mercy is faithful.⁵⁰⁵¹Because of the present distress, I think that it is good for a man to remain as he is.⁵²⁵³Are you bound to a wife? Do not seek to be released. Are you released from a wife? Do not seek a wife.⁵⁴⁵⁵However, if you do get married, you have not sinned, and if a virgin marries, she has not sinned. But such people will have trouble in this life, and I am trying to spare you.⁵⁶

⁵⁷This is what I mean, brothers and sisters: The time is limited, so from now on those who have wives should be as though they had none,⁵⁸⁵⁹those who weep as though they did not weep, those who rejoice as though they did not rejoice, those who buy as though they didn’t own anything,⁶⁰⁶¹and those who use the world as though they did not make full use of it. For this world in its current form is passing away.⁶²

⁶³I want you to be without concerns. The unmarried man is concerned about the things of the Lord — how he may please the Lord.⁶⁴⁶⁵But the married man is concerned about the things of the world — how he may please his wife —⁶⁶⁶⁷and his interests are divided. The unmarried woman or virgin is concerned about the things of the Lord, so that she may be holy both in body and in spirit. But the married woman is concerned about the things of the world — how she may please her husband.⁶⁸⁶⁹I am saying this for your own benefit, not to put a restraint on you, but to promote what is proper and so that you may be devoted to the Lord without distraction.⁷⁰

⁷¹If any man thinks he is acting improperly toward the virgin he is engaged to, if she is getting beyond the usual age for marriage, and he feels he should marry — he can do what he wants. He is not sinning; they can get married.⁷²⁷³But he who stands firm in his heart (who is under no compulsion, but has control over his own will) and has decided in his heart to keep her as his fiancée, will do well.⁷⁴⁷⁵So, then, he who marries his fiancée does well, but he who does not marry will do better.⁷⁶

⁷⁷A wife is bound as long as her husband is living. But if her husband dies, she is free to be married to anyone she wants — only in the Lord.⁷⁸⁷⁹But she is happier if she remains as she is, in my opinion. And I think that I also have the Spirit of God.⁸⁰